We are a Private, Upscale
Polyamory & Kink
Lifestyle Community
Welcome to HandPicked—an exclusive members-only social club for mature, open-minded individuals exploring ethical non-monogamy, sensuality, and connection. HandPicked is an inclusive community who welcomes ALL. We have a zero-tolerance policy for racism/homophobia/sexism/slut shaming/body shaming/prejudice in any form. Our events and online network provide a safe, stylish, and judgment-free environment for self-expression and exploration.
What We Offer
An intentionally curated experience for those seeking more than just parties. HandPicked is about meaningful encounters, real conversations, and authentic connections—whether romantic, platonic, or somewhere in between. Every member is screened, every event is elevated.
A New Era of Intimacy, Connection & Community
We create safe spaces, online and in-person, where identity, consent, and pleasure take center stage.
Private Events Hosted
Over Connections Made
The Veil Lifts for the Worthy
HandPicked is not for everyone — and that’s the point. We welcome individuals who value authenticity, privacy, and deeper connection.